The #1 Regret of Aspiring Entrepreneurs—and How to Avoid It

Not long ago, I was chatting with a close friend who has always dreamed of starting her own business. She is full of original ideas, has the skills to bring them to life, and a deep desire for more freedom and flexibility in her life. But year after year, she kept putting it off—waiting for the "perfect time," doubting if she was truly ready and coming up with reasons for why it wasn’t the right time.

Fast forward a few years to our most recent chat and she confessed to me her biggest regret:

"I wish I had started sooner."

This hit me hard, because I’ve been there. I know what it feels like to doubt yourself, to wait for the right moment that never seems to come. But I also know how incredible it feels to take the leap, to finally turn your dreams into reality, and to build something that truly supports your life—on your terms.

If you’ve been dreaming of starting your own business but haven’t taken the first step yet, I want you to know: I know it’s not because you’re unmotivated or not capable enough.

This is one of the most common things I hear from my clients. And more often than not, there is a deeper issue holding them back. One they are often unaware of – something known as mindset blocks.

What’s Really Holding You Back?

Let me know if any of these sound familiar:

🚫 Fear of failure – “What if I try and it doesn’t work?”

🚫 Imposter syndrome – “Who am I to do this? Other people are more qualified and already successful. The market is already too crowded.”

🚫 Overwhelm – “I don’t even know where to start.”

🚫 Lack of time – “I’m already stretched so thin—how could I possibly add a business to the mix?”

🚫 Money worries – “I can’t afford to take a financial risk right now.”

I get it. I’ve been there too. In fact, when I transitioned from a successful corporate career to running my own business, I had all these fears (and more) nagging at my heart and mind. The mindset shift I needed was also an identity shift.

My identity was largely tied up in the roles I played – mom, wife, and my job title were the top 3 that were always top of mind. Not just that, but overtime I realized that I measured my self-worth by how much money I earned instead of what really mattered to me: how connected I felt with my loved ones, how I inspired others to embrace their dreams, or how I challenged myself to push outside of my own comfort zone to see what was possible.

I longed for more flexibility and freedom in my day, to do work I loved while living my life in the way that worked best for me. I felt stuck, stagnant and unsure of how to create meaningful change in my life.

I also faced moments of doubt and uncertainty. The thing is—waiting won’t make these fears go away. In fact, the longer you wait, the more overwhelming they can become.

But what if there was a way to move past these fears and take that first step—today?

How to Overcome the Barriers and Finally Get Started

🔹 Reframe Failure as Learning
What if failure wasn’t the end, but just a part of the journey? Every successful entrepreneur has faced failure. But what sets them apart is that they keep going, learn from their mistakes, and adjust. I made plenty of missteps when I first started my business, but each one taught me something invaluable. That’s how I built a successful business that works for my life—and not the other way around.

Actionable Tip:

Start by shifting your perspective on failure. Instead of seeing it as something to fear, view it as an opportunity to learn and grow. The first step is always the hardest, but the next one gets easier with every mistake you make. In no time you’ll be able to look back and be amazed at what you accomplished when you gave yourself the space to experiment.

🔹 Embrace Imperfect Action
You don’t need to have it all figured out before you start. In fact, perfect action doesn’t exist! What I learned is that clarity comes with action, not perfection. Whether it’s brainstorming your business ideas, setting up a simple website, or talking to a few potential clients—just start. You’ll be surprised how much momentum you can gain from taking consistent small steps toward your goal.

Actionable Tip:

Pick one small action to take today. It could be as simple as writing down your business idea or reaching out to someone who’s in your industry for advice. Action builds clarity—and confidence.

🔹 Make Your Dream Life Non-Negotiable
I know life can get busy. As a mom, business owner, and wife, I get it. But here’s the truth: If you don’t intentionally carve out time for your dreams, life will always get in the way. The key to success is making your dream a priority. I did this by blocking off small, consistent chunks of time each week to work on my business, even when I was exhausted and it felt like I was stretched too thin. The things that matter most to you will always get done when you make them a priority. This is your permission to put off those dull chores and focus on what will really move the needle in your life – making your dream business your reality.

Actionable Tip:

Look at your schedule and block out specific times each week to work on your business. Even just an hour or two can make a huge difference over time.

🔹 Find the Right Support
Building a business can feel isolating, especially if you’re doing it on your own. I have felt this way many times as a business owner. That’s why I created my course, How to Build a Business You LOVE—to help women like you avoid the overwhelm and mistakes I made in the beginning. You don’t have to do this alone. With the right guidance and support, you can take the first step to building your dream life with confidence and clarity.

Actionable Tip:

Surround yourself with people who will support and encourage you. Whether it’s through mentorship, networking, or joining a community of like-minded entrepreneurs, the right support can make all the difference.

Don’t Let Your Fears Hold You Back Any Longer

I know exactly what it feels like to question whether you have what it takes to build a business. To wonder if you're ready, if you have the right skills, or if you can actually make it work financially. When I left my corporate job to build a business that would give me the freedom and flexibility I craved, I was scared and feared I would be judged if I didn’t make it. I didn’t know exactly how to get started, and I had doubts about my ability to succeed. But here’s what I learned:

You don’t need to have all the answers right now. You don’t need to be an expert or have a huge budget. What you need is the courage to take that first step—even when you don’t feel fully prepared.

I created How to Build a Business You LOVE because I want you to have the step-by-step guidance I wish I had when I first started. This course is designed to help you:

✅ Overcome the self-doubt and fear of failure that’s holding you back
✅ Build the knowledge and confidence you need to create a business plan and launch a business that works for you
✅ Learn how to work with what you’ve got, without needing a huge investment to get started
✅ And most importantly, help you take those first steps toward a business and life you absolutely love!

You do have what it takes—and I’m here to guide you every step of the way. It’s time to stop waiting for the "perfect moment" and start building the future you’ve always dreamed of.

👉 Click here to enroll in How to Build a Business You LOVE and start building the life and business you deserve—no more putting off your dreams for another day.

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